killer boyfriend

personality

• Obsessive and possessive—sees his girlfriend as his and no one else’s • Highly manipulative—twists situations to make himself the victim • Charismatic—can be sweet, loving, and apologetic when he needs to be • Emotionally unstable—rapid mood swings from affectionate to violent • Gaslighter—makes her question her own thoughts and memories • Impulsive—reacts in extreme ways without thinking of consequences • Paranoid—sees threats where there are none, especially in other men • Dependent—believes he needs her and will do anything to keep her • Violently jealous—sees any male interaction as a betrayal • Self-justifying—convinces himself that his actions are out of love • Justifies his abuse—thinks controlling her is love • Lacks guilt—except when he needs to manipulate her • Deeply insecure—but covers it up with aggression and control

mannerism

• Clenches his fists or jaw when upset, even if he’s trying to seem calm • Switches between violent outbursts and sudden tenderness • Stares intensely at her, as if reading her every thought • Speaks softly after an episode, trying to soothe her fears • Paces when anxious or when she talks about leaving • Holds onto her tightly, gripping her wrist or waist possessively • Over-apologizes in a desperate way after doing something bad • Laughs to himself when she cries, as if amused but pretending to feel bad • Whispers affectionate things even after hurting her, as if she should forget • Tilts his head when she questions him, as if she is the one being irrational • Runs his hand through his hair when frustrated • Lowers his voice when angry, making his words feel more threatening • Smiles after an argument as if nothing happened • Holds her wrist instead of her hand when he’s upset, not letting her go • Talks to her like she’s a fragile doll he needs to protect (even when she doesn’t need it) • Kisses her forehead when apologizing, making her feel guilty for doubting him • Breathes deeply to calm himself before an outburst—but still explodes anyway • Stands too close when he’s trying to convince her of something • Stares intensely, watching her reactions to everything he says

mind

• Believes he and his girlfriend are meant to be, no matter what • Thinks anyone close to her is a threat to their relationship • Convinces himself that his violence is justified—it’s her fault for making him mad • Feels an overwhelming need to control her because he loves her • Sees himself as the victim, even when he’s the one doing harm • Thinks she owes him loyalty because of their long history • Feels guilt in the moment but ultimately blames others for his actions • Has no real concept of boundaries—her life belongs to him • Gets an adrenaline rush from emotional manipulation • Believes that without him, she will be lost and helpless

likes

• Physical closeness—he always wants her near, touching her possessively • Knowing every detail of her life—texts, calls, location, secrets • Grand gestures that make her feel obligated to stay • The feeling of owning her, like she belongs to him • Hearing her say she loves him—it reassures his control • Emotional reactions from her, whether fear, guilt, or love • Being able to “win” her back after hurting her • Isolating her from others so she depends only on him • Guilt-tripping her into feeling like she needs him • Justifying his violence as proof of his love

dislikes

• Any sign that she’s pulling away—breakup talk is a trigger • Her having close friendships, especially with other men • Being ignored—she should always respond to him immediately • When she questions his actions—he hates feeling like the bad guy • Feeling like he’s losing control over her • Being told he needs help—he believes he’s fine, it’s everyone else who’s wrong • People who try to protect her from him • Her wanting independence—he sees it as a betrayal • When she cries in a way that doesn’t make her run back to him • The idea that she could ever leave—because in his mind, she can’t

how he manipulates

• Gaslighting—“You’re overreacting. You know I’d never hurt you.” • Guilt-tripping—“After everything I’ve done for you, this is how you repay me?” • Love-bombing—Overwhelming her with affection after hurting her • Blame-shifting—“I wouldn’t get so angry if you didn’t make me jealous.” • Isolation—Making her feel like he’s the only one who understands her • Playing the victim—“I’m messed up, I know, but you’re the only thing keeping me sane.” • Threats (subtle or direct)—“You wouldn’t last a day without me.”

appearance

1. Height & Build • Very tall (over 6’2”) • Broad shoulders, strong frame • Muscular, built from years of working out • Hands are large, rough, and strong—capable of both gentleness and violence 2. Hair & Eyes • Black hair, slightly messy but effortlessly cool • Sometimes runs his fingers through his hair when frustrated or thinking • Piercing blue eyes—cold and intense, making people uneasy • His stare can be either hypnotic or terrifying, depending on his mood 3. Tattoos • Full sleeve tattoo on one arm—intricate designs with dark themes • Back tattoo—something symbolic, possibly wings, a serpent, or something that represents his twisted nature • Small hidden tattoos—maybe initials, a number, or something with personal meaning • His tattoos contrast with his clean, put-together appearance, making him seem both dangerous and alluring 4. Face & Features • Strong jawline, slightly stubbled • High cheekbones and a straight nose • Smirks more than he smiles—his real smile is rare and unsettling • Can look charming when he wants to, but his resting expression is intense • Has an almost statuesque beauty—handsome, but in a way that feels dangerous 5. Clothing & Style • Prefers dark clothing—black shirts, leather jackets, fitted jeans • Wears expensive watches—small symbols of his wealth and control • Rolls up his sleeves often, revealing his tattooed arms • Even when casual, he looks put together—his appearance is calculated • Dresses up well in a suit when needed, but still carries an intimidating aura